How to teach a kid to tie their shoes
Two methods that work, when to switch between them, and why some kids need 6 months — and that's normal.
Devra Khoury
February 28, 2026
Bunny-ears (ages 4–6)
Make a loop with each lace ('bunny ears'). Cross the ears. Tuck one through the hole. Pull tight.
Easier for younger kids because both hands are doing the same thing — symmetry helps.
Loop-swoop-pull (ages 6+)
Make a loop with one lace. Wrap the other lace around. Push it through the gap. Pull both loops tight.
Tidier knot, faster once mastered. Good once the child has the fine motor skills.
Make it easier to learn
Two-color shoelaces (one half each color) — kids see what each lace is doing. Order online for $5.
Practice on a flat surface, not on the foot. Less awkward angle, easier to focus.
People also ask
What's the average age?+
5–7. Some kids master it at 4; others not until 8. Don't compare — kids develop fine motor skills at different rates.
Should I use Velcro shoes longer?+
Sure — but rotate in lace-up shoes for practice. Some kids never learn because they never practice.
Why does it take so long?+
Tying shoes is a complex sequence with bilateral coordination. It clicks suddenly after seeming impossible for weeks.